The Neuroqueer Relationship Survival Guide
Navigating Neuroqueerness, One Distracted Date at a Time
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How am I supposed to flirt?
Am I overdoing it?
How do I find someone who truly gets me?
Dating and relationships can be tough, especially if you are queer, trans, neurodivergent or all of the above. From reading social cues in queer flirting and coping with rejection sensitivity, to dopamine-seeking in intimacy and navigating the 'what we are?' conversation, being autistic and having ADHD might make it feel like finding and maintaining connections is harder for you than your neurotypical friends.
CJ De Barra has been on a personal journey of radical self-acceptance, learning how to love their neuroqueer self. Drawing from their experience, professional expertise and interviews with other neuroqueer people, this is the essential guide to dating, sex and maintaining relationships for those who think (and love) outside the box.
Am I overdoing it?
How do I find someone who truly gets me?
Dating and relationships can be tough, especially if you are queer, trans, neurodivergent or all of the above. From reading social cues in queer flirting and coping with rejection sensitivity, to dopamine-seeking in intimacy and navigating the 'what we are?' conversation, being autistic and having ADHD might make it feel like finding and maintaining connections is harder for you than your neurotypical friends.
CJ De Barra has been on a personal journey of radical self-acceptance, learning how to love their neuroqueer self. Drawing from their experience, professional expertise and interviews with other neuroqueer people, this is the essential guide to dating, sex and maintaining relationships for those who think (and love) outside the box.
- Published: Jan 21 2027
- Pages: 224
- ISBN: 9781399830454
Press Reviews
Jake Hall, journalist and author of Shoulder to Shoulder
A thorough, long-overdue guide to sex, love and relationships, penned by everyone's favourite neuroqueer. CJ writes with warmth, wit and empathy, bringing in a huge range of other experiences to cover all bases. An essential book for both neuroqueer people and their partners, one that's accessible and broken into bite-sized chunks.
Fox Fisher, co-creator of the Trans Teen Survival Guide
As a fellow neuroqueer living in a neurotypical world, I've always felt like I was missing a guide book to life - this is the book I wish I'd had years ago. Covering everything from masking and meltdowns to intimacy and self-acceptance, it speaks straight to my trans, queer, AuDHD heart. Vital, validating, and such a relief to read, even now.