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Letting Go of Perfect

A Gay Man’s Guide to Healing from Body Dysmorphia
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Oct 21, 2025

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Body dysmorphia affects a significant number of gay men, driven by rigid beauty ideals and social expectations around masculinity. The pursuit of a 'perfect' body can quickly become all-consuming, leading to harmful patterns around food, fitness, and self-worth.

Daniel O'Shaughnessy understands this not just as a clinician but as someone who has lived it. Drawing on his experience with extreme dieting, compulsive exercise, and steroid use, he brings a rare honesty to a subject still too often shrouded in silence. His professional insight as a nutritionist and mindset coach is shaped by this lived reality, offering both empathy and expertise.

This book explores why body dysmorphia is so pervasive in the gay community, unpacks its psychological roots, and provides practical tools to help you challenge toxic patterns and begin to build a more respectful, sustainable relationship with your body.

Whether you're caught in cycles of comparison or simply exhausted by the pressure to look a certain way, this is a grounded guide to thinking differently, living more freely, and letting go of the need to be 'perfect.'
  • Published: Oct 21 2025
  • Pages: 272
  • 214 x 136mm
  • ISBN: 9781805017981
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Press Reviews

  • Tom Bruett, MS, LMFT, licensed psychotherapist, author of 'the Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men'

    Body image is a real struggle in the gay community-and finally, there's a resource that tackles it with clarity, compassion, and authenticity. Packed with honest insight and practical tools, this is a must-read for gay men and the professionals who support us.
  • Philip Baldwin, LGBTQIA+ Activist

    Honest, informative and brave, Letting Go Of Perfect is a refreshing read for any LGBTQIA+ person who's ever been left feeling inadequate by the gym. I needed this book fifteen years ago. Essential reading!